10 Things To Know: Autism & Romantic Relationships

"A lack of social skills does not mean a lack of interest in socializing."

This excellent blog post from a 21 year-old awareness-raising Aspie in Yorkshire, who provides 10 very important insights to keep in mind when it comes to romantic relationships on the autism spectrum

 

http://seeingdoubleautismawareness.wordpress.com/2014/10/21/ten-things-i-wish-everyone-knew-about-autism-and-romantic-relationships/

"High-Functioning" & "Low-Functioning" Aren't So Functional Labels

Dani Alexis, aka the Autistic Academic, writes a to-the-point essay on the problematic nature of "functioning" labels with regard to autism spectrum disorders (ASD). Words are powerful & these particular adjectives have a tendency to betray the humanity of those they are meant to describe.

 

"I have heard 'high-functioning' used to mean many things, from 'has an IQ several standard deviations among the mean' to 'has a job' to 'talks.'  

But I have never, not once, heard 'low-functioning' to mean anything but 'hopeless tragedy.'  And I have never heard either of these labels deployed to mean anything but 'still not quite, you know…one of us.'

 

http://autisticacademic.com/2014/08/12/why-this-high-functioning-autistic-really-wishes-youd-shut-up-about-high-functioning-autistics/